I was talking to a friend of mine yesterday, and it occurred to me - that she might feel cheated.
No, not in the romantic sense at all. Let me explain.
I define intimacy in many ways. So in my head mental intimacy is how for example any two people relate. So, if I am close to my mother - and I let her into my inner world - then I am mentally intimate with her.
With that definition out of the way, what if, you, let someone into your inner world - only to realize that he/she is a disaster.
I distinctly detected that my friend feels cheated, exactly in that sense....sadly, and I am the cheat.
I do tell myself - its not a burden for me to carry. Then again, thats what they told Jesus. Sometimes the cross is so firmly attached to you, you have to carry it.
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