Monday, September 21, 2009

769 : Allah Mohammed Char Yaar….

At my cousin’s house yday, 5 of us sat in her main room, trying to make some conversation. Every one minute or so, somebody said a few sentences and then everyone looked at each other. The conversation was just not picking up, and the awkwardness was building up.

Then someone turned up the TV volume, and ever so smoothly, everyone felt at ease, because the pressure to talk was gone.

I don’t know about others, but for me, distance does impact me….It makes my (already highly suspect) ability to make conversation almost disappear.

Feelings and bonding seem to remain strong, inspite of distance. One my closest buddies stays at Florida, we have not spoken in years now. Does it impact my ability to converse with him now….absolutely. No way, I could have a 30 min chat with him now without a few awkward pauses.

How important is conversations in a relationship? Well, that is a matter of (crooked )perspective….

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